Thursday, July 30, 2009

kitty grief?

my cat's constant companion, an older cat of ours, reently passed away (he was 19!). since then, my cat has been acting differently. he cries alot and seems to run and hide when you come near him. knowing my cat, that's unusual behavior, as he's very loving and affectionate, and relatively quiet. we do have another cat but he just seems to ignore her now. is it possible he's going through a grieving stage? how can i help him out?
Answers:
How sad for both of you. I am proud of you as well for knowing that this poor little animal has feeling like we do. Many people actually think that animals do not have emotions and disregard them altogether.
I found this for you, hope it helps along with the other information and advise you have also received.
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There are a number of things you can do to help a grieving cat to overcome the loss. Minimising change gives the cat time to come to terms with the loss of a companion cat. Keep the cat ' s routine the same. Changes in feeding times or even simply moving furniture around can cause further stress.

A grieving cat may go off its food. A cat that goes off its food for several days is in danger of a potentially fatal liver disease called hepatic lipidosis. Encourage eating by warming food slightly or putting water or meat juice or it. Sit with your cat during meal times to provide reassurance. Don't be tempted to change diets to stimulate appetite as this may cause digestive upsets. If the cat does not eat for three days seek veterinary advice.

Spend more time with the cat grooming, stroking and playing. This will give a positive feel to any changes in the house that the cat senses.


Don't attempt to replace a lost cat immediately. While your remaining cat may be missing a long term companion, she is unlikely to welcome a stranger when she is still unsettled about the loss. A new cat at this time simply provides an extra source of stress.

Good luck with your cat.
Yes, he is grieving, poor kitty. He will get over it. You can give him more attention and that will help. does the other cat mourn also? Maybe you can get the two together with some catnip or a new toy to build their relationship.Good luck.
yes i believe so i knew this old dog and they also had got another young dog the dog died the younger dog pined also within weeks the other dog died. Dont mean to alarm u but i do believe that animals grieve.
Bless his heart
Sounds like he is going through a grieving stage hard
he may start going through the house making loud sounds, a calling for his companion.
I would say (if you can) get another cat for him, sinse he has nothing to do with your other cat
In time the grieving will pass
And wow a cat you had for 19 years, you did good in taking care of him, way to go
But sorry for your, and lil kittys loss
Aww, poor kitty, poor you, I bet you miss him too. Just give your cat time to grieve. Call him and offer comfort, but don't force it on him, in other words if he doesn't want you to pick him up or pet him, don't. He's sad but also confused right now. If he doesn't seem better after several weeks, consult a vet.
Yes, Cats grieve and get lonesome.
The poor lil guy is looking for his buddy!
Pay special attention to him and play with him more to keep him busy.
Like humans, this too shall pass.
(dont watch "where the red fern grows" *sigh*)
yep, he's grieving. Only thing that will take care of it is time. I'd wait a bit to introduce a new one.
Give him some extra lovings and treats.
Hi Nox, Yes he is grieving and he's crying alot. The poor cat is in alot of pain.He really love your cat that passed away.Dogs and cats have feeling just like we do.What i would do is pay alot more attention to him.Treat him like he's king of the house.Tell stories to him and play with him alot.Let him know you love him and don't want anything to happen to him.Let him know he is special to you. Sorry about your lost.Remember you had 19yrs with you baby.Remember the good times you had.He will live in your heart. A Animal Lover.

Clowmy
Pamper him! try and give him lots of brushes! Try and play with him..give him little treats such as cat milk and things like that, also talk to him alot. Say it's alright.

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